PHOENIX, Arizona Two years ago, Karen Daniel was wider around than she was tall. Weighing 375 pounds, the 45-year-old wife and mother had high blood
pressure; her knees hurt and she was always hot. She felt fatigued and
could barely breathe at the slightest exertion. Even the simplest
things became a chore -- tying her shoes, crossing her legs, getting in
and out of the car or trying to fit into a chair with arms. "I wasn't living ... I was just existing," recalled Daniel. She hadn't always struggled with her weight.
Daniel said she started gaining weight at age 18 after moving out of
her parents' home to live on her own. By the time she married her
husband, Paul, at age 22, she weighed 225 pounds. "Whenever
something happened, I used food," said Daniel. "It was like my drug of
choice was food. I never did drugs or alcohol. I was addicted to food."
Seven months after her wedding and another 50 pounds later, Daniel
became pregnant with her first child. Instead of gaining weight during
the pregnancy, she lost 75 pounds after a doctor warned her not to use
it as an excuse to eat. But after her daughter Sarah was born, Daniel
gained back all the weight she'd lost and then some.en years later, she weighed 300 pounds and became pregnant with
their second child, McKenna. Again, she lost weight during the
pregnancy, but with the stress of having another child and running her
own business, she turned to food. By the time her youngest daughter was
10 years old, Daniel weighed 375 pounds. "I ate all the time.
... I was stuffing my emotions, I was eating my emotions," said Daniel.
"When I would finally get [McKenna] to bed at night, I would stay up
late and that was my time alone. I tried to de-stress and wind down and
I'd watch TV and eat. It was mindless eating." Mentally,
something started to click and Daniel began to wonder how and why she
had allowed her weight to spiral out of control. She said there was no
"lightbulb" moment or wake-up call that made her realize she'd had
enough. For her, there was a series of events that helped her finally
realize she was tired of being morbidly obese.
"I couldn't bend over to tie my shoes, get down on the ground or fit
into chairs. Everything was hard," said Daniel. "You're constantly
worried about fitting in the toilet or shower or visiting someone's
house and [worrying] about breaking a chair. It affects every minute of
your life and you don't realize it." As fate would have it, she
saw a TV commercial for exercise equipment that was being sold at a
local gym. It was geared toward senior citizens, but Daniel saw it as a
start. When she showed up to buy it, she met the gym's owner, Bill
Crawford. "He gave me some of his literature and told me if I needed anything or a jump-start to give him a call," said Daniel.
When Daniel got home, she told her sister, Jan, she was thinking
about hiring Crawford as her personal trainer, but she was hesitant.
Her sister asked if she would have to think twice about hiring a
trainer if it were for her husband or daughters. "She made me
realize I was worth it as much as they were," said Daniel, whose fear
of failure kept her from telling people outside her family about her
plans to work out. On September 15, 2006, Daniel showed up for
her first training session. She was wearing a dress over her workout
clothes because she refused to be seen in size 40W pants. "When
Karen first walked in the door, she weighed 375 pounds and she could
barely make it from the car to the front door," recalled Crawford,
founder of Basic Training in Phoenix, Arizona. "I knew that just making
it to the front door of a fitness center was a big deal."
Before her first workout, Crawford took her measurements, but the tape
measure wasn't long enough to fit around her hips. He needed seven more
inches. "I was 67 inches around on my butt and 65 inches tall.
So I was two inches bigger around than I was tall," said Daniel, who
had a body fat percentage of 54.60 percent. "I also couldn't fit on his
scale or in some of his machines when I started." Crawford and
Daniel improvised and she made it through her first hourlong workout.
She continued to train for one hour, three times a week and said even
though she "hated every minute of it" she pushed herself.
Fact Box Karen's weight-loss tips
1. Put yourself first. You are worth it.
2. Work out every day -- no matter what. Some of your best workouts happen on days when you're tired or feeling bad.
3. Count calories and write everything down.
4. Drink lots of water.
5. Avoid salt and processed foods. Eat fresh as much as possible.
6.
If you can't be honest with other people about your weight, be honest
with yourself. Sometimes it is the hardest thing you have to do.
7.
Ask for help if you need it -- people are willing to support you. Limit
your time with those who sabotage you or don't support your goals.
8. Keep a journal and take pictures so you can see how far you've come emotionally and physically.
9.
If you go off your program, get right back on. Don't wait until
tomorrow, Monday or the New Year to get started. Just do it and don't
beat yourself up -- no one is perfect.
"It was extremely hard, I'm not gonna lie," said Daniel. "I couldn't
count down the minutes fast enough. It was something I did not enjoy --
I was so out of breath. I was sweaty, hot. But as soon as I stepped out
that door, it was so worth it to me because I felt so much better about
what I had accomplished. I knew I made it through one more workout. I
knew it was getting me closer to where I wanted to be." In addition to the one-on-one training sessions, Daniel modified her diet,
eating more proteins and complex carbohydrates. She also eliminated
bread and pasta and reduced her intake of sugar, salt and processed
foods. If she craved something sweet, she ate a piece of fruit. She
cooked with olive oil instead of butter. Just short of her
one-year anniversary, she had lost 102 pounds. Her daughters gave her a
Tiffany bracelet and her sister, Jan, treated her to her first
pedicure. Crawford, her trainer, celebrated her success with a reminder.
"I had her take two 50-pound dumbbells and walk out to the street and
walk back," recalled Crawford. "When she got back she was exhausted and
that's the kind of weight people have to carry when they're overweight
like that." On her one-year anniversary, Daniel had lost 114
pounds. By her two-year anniversary on September 15, 2008, she had lost
170 pounds. Now weighing around 200 pounds, she has gone from wearing a
women's size 30 dress to a size 14 and she's gone from wearing a
double-wide shoe to a medium width. Since losing the weight,
Daniel has celebrated many milestones she never would have achieved
weighing nearly 400 pounds, such as attending sporting events with her
family, white-water rafting, kayaking, flying on an airplane without
buying two tickets or using a seatbelt extender or simply being able to
look down and see her feet. She recently achieved one of her lifelong
dreams: riding in a hot air balloon over the Arizona desert.
Today, she works out nine times a week -- doing cardio twice a day and
weight training with Crawford in the evening. Even though she now
enjoys working out, staying on track is a constant struggle. Daniel
said losing weight has been the hardest thing she's ever done.
"Every minute of my life was about my weight. What I couldn't do.
Things I couldn't accomplish," said Daniel, who admitted it was hard to
get started. "It's a lot harder to be fat than it is to work so hard at
being fit. Fit feels so good." What's next for Daniel? She wants to lose 35 to 40 more pounds before her 48th birthday and
keep adding to the list of things she wants to do to make sure she
savors every moment. Most of all, Daniel hopes to inspire others by
sharing her weight-loss story on her Web site, www.ihavebones.com.
"I just wish they would take the first step, because it's so worth it.
Your life is so much better than worrying about where you're going to
sit and how you're going to sit. You can actually ... enjoy life!"
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